Zoo and Flyrider already proffer their speculative armchair psychologist diagnoses, unbidden. Now you, too?
When I ride up Pike's Peak, the last 3-4000 ft I no longer have traction or wheelie problems in 1st. That's the only place I've found.
Yet again, if you are traction limited, gearing up or down is irrelevant; you cannot use the power you have. Everyone agrees (I think). So let's leave this aside.
So, is the bile quicker when you have traction in a given gear? I assume everyone agrees, given perfect traction, a bike with one tooth down on the front sprocket will accelerate quicker. Yes?
Now consider how most ride. They are not WOT at peak RPM at every moment, quickly shifting up only upon reaching redline. They are at varying RPM in various gears with varying throttle settings. They are not traction limited a good share of the time.
Accordingly, under most real world conditions for most riders, lower gearing will make the bike faster.
It is these considerations and practical application which also dictate why a racer picks different gear ratios for each track. It is not because he is power limited or unskilled, but rather how he can best use the power available to him. Sometimes higher gears work better, sometimes lower.
Few of us will change a gear set for a ride in the twisties, but for many a sprocket change makes the power the bike possesses much more usable and, consequently, the bike quicker.
It must be an interesting engineering discussion before a new bike is released: How do we gear this thing? One can easily present good arguments for both higher and lower than stock for this bike.
Your argument appears to be the gearing is already too low as the power is unusable; too little traction, too many wheelies. So, have you accordingly switched to a bigger front/smaller rear sprocket to get the power under control? Why not?